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Matt's avatar

I have a few thoughts here:

1. Samoas have a similar amount of calories from fat and carbohydrate, if you'd like to replenish muscle glycogen without excess calories, there are better options ;)

2. I'm struggling to understand true motivations— you mention these urges from your "animal brain," wealth, attractiveness, the ability to impress... Is there anything wrong with wanting those things? Would it be acceptable to say they're byproducts of accomplishing other, internal goals? For example: I want to be the best version of myself possible. That means physically and mentally... Working to improve physically and mentally means becoming mentally sharper and physically more attractive. My number 1 goal is not to have big biceps, but it's a nice side product of training smart and hard.

3. Many of these seem like they could be solved with a first-principles approach to setting goals or problem solving. For example, rather than letting your mind play tricks on whether to eat cookies, track macros. Rather than "doing a few sets of curls," find an exercise regiment that aligns with who you want to be. Rather than starting fights on Twitter, ask if a response reflects your true self.

4. I think you get at that with "stemming the root compulsions." For me, having a clear vision of myself is immensely valuable for that. Thought: I want a cookie, Brain: I prioritize my health and fitness: cookies are ok sometimes, but not right now. Is it perfect? No. Does it take practice? Yes. But after a while your personality starts to align with those thoughts.

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Gordon Wong's avatar

I'm far from the poster child for self control but maybe that's part of the issue. Self control is an impossible battle given all the hidden forces you called out. What helps me a little is trying harness some of those hidden forces with framing. An appeal to the secret gods so to speak. Couple questions:

Do I want to be happy or do I want to be right?

-don't pick a fight over coding format if you want to be happy.

How do I want to feel tomorrow, as opposed to a minute?

-want to have a good day snowboarding tomorrow? Time to switch from beer to water

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